So, today is the 1st of December and I am excited about the holidays coming up...I am trying to, once again, put all of the drama behind me and look forward to spending Christmas and New Year's with my beautiful children and husband.
As I had previously forecasted in my previous blog, after e-mailing "Cybil's" mother I got the typical response of her not wanting to get involved. Eh, typical. I wasn't expecting much but I figured she would at least be a little ashamed of the way her daughter was acting. Nope, not a chance. I woke up the following morning with a response from "Cybil's" mother stating that concerning their relationship, she would not get involved. She was unhappy that their divorce had ever happened and was going to continue to not be involved. She thanked me for the note and wished us both well. Okay, well...My thoughts said:
Dear "Cybil's" Mom,
I am not asking you to get involved in their relationship I am asking you to say something to YOUR daughter about the way she is acting. If it was my daughter that was acting that way, I would definitely be saying something. I would think that I raised my daughter better then that. But it's okay, you want to shelter her and continue to enable her and let her act like a spoiled brat and torment people. Of course, she won't ever be able to do anything on her own even though she is in her late 30's, she is going to continue on with her childish behavior and not truly ever have anyone in her life that cares about her because of the way she treats people. She will never find another man that cares for her because all she does is continuously find "thugs" and "posers" who only care about "getting some" but that is all okay because you're still Mommy of the day as long as you don't piss off your little psycho princess.
Sincerely,
The Whore Who You Claim Stole Your Daughter's Man
But of course in reality...I wrote this:
"Cybil's" Mom,
Thank you for your response, like I said, I thought I would try. I definitely understand the position you are in and I am sure it is difficult for you to witness. I am not a supporter of divorce in any way nor do I truly know what their situation was like; but I do know it is not something I wish on people. It is a very difficult thing to go through. I care very deeply about my family and only am trying to protect them, I am sure you can understand. I wish you all well and hope your holidays are enjoyable and relaxing.
Have a great day,
ME
She then sent a reply with, she was still not getting involved but would let "Cybil" know that I had written her. Really? What the hell for? You know as well as I do that is just going to annoy her and fuel her fire some more. I didn't respond to her e-mail but felt I had gotten my point across anyways. My feelings for the rest of the evening were about how disturbed I was that a loving parent would actually just not care. She's on "Cybil's" facebook page, she is well aware of the things her daughter posts on there. My only assumption is that she is either in denial or just completely oblivious to the truth even though it's right in front of her. Oh well...Life Goes On.
I am looking forward to a new chapter in life and now that things seem to be calming down, at least for now, I just want to sit back and enjoy life.
I have been reading about other psycho ex-wives that men and their new spouses have to deal with and I find comfort in knowing that she isn't the only crazy Jezebel attempting to make people miserable. I feel sad in knowing that there are so many people out there suffering and having no way of stopping it due to the fact that they share children and actually care about their children. It is never the dead beat Dad's that have to deal with the psychos. Just the nice ones who just want to be an active member in their child's life and are forced to deal with these irrational nut jobs in order to do that.
I definitely believe that laws need to be changed and things need to be done. It surprises me that New York is still so far behind legally in divorce and custody matters. It was just this past year in October that they finally changed their divorce laws, becoming the last no fault state in the United States. Now THAT is insanity. They also don't base child support off the amount of time you spend with your child. They just take a percentage right off the top. So, yep, whether you're a physical parent or not you're paying the same. Way to go New York, that's the way to make fathers want to stick around. Hell, they can't even afford to give their children a fairly decent lifestyle unless they rent a room with someone because they already struggle to make ends meet.
But hey, that's just my opinion...
Onward and upward and shining on!
<3 The Nice Wife
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